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What to text guests

Your wedding weekend, laid out in minutes.

Wondering what to text wedding guests? Paste your wedding website and see every text your weekend needs, when each one goes out and who gets it. Then make every word yours. It’s free to set up.

No website? Start with the basics

samandriley.com

Sam & Riley

October 2–4, 2026 · Sonoma

Zola · The Knot · Joy · Wix · your own

What we look for

Your website has the facts. Your guests need the texts.

A lawn ceremony becomes a note about shoes. A hotel block becomes a nudge before it closes. Tap a detail to see the text it turns into.

On samandriley.com

In your guests’ texts

Lawn ceremony, skip the stilettos

Thu Oct 1 · 5:00 PM

To everyone

Saturday’s ceremony is on the grass, so skip the stilettos and bring a layer for the evening. Garden formal, as promised.

Why this text

An outdoor grass ceremony means a shoe and layer note.

Ceremony on the north lawnGarden formal

How many texts

What to text wedding guests, and when.

Usually about five: a hello, the useful details, a nudge before anything with a departure time, and a thank-you that gathers the photos. A full weekend may need seven.

7

texts · three days, a hotel block and a shuttle

  1. Five weeks before

    The hotel block closes soon

    Everyone

  2. A week before

    The weekend at a glance

    Everyone

  3. Three days before

    Grass, layers and garden formal

    Everyone

  4. Friday, 5:30 PM

    Welcome drinks tonight

    Everyone

  5. Saturday, 3:15 PM

    Shuttle at 3:45

    Shuttle riders

  6. Sunday, 9:00 AM

    Brunch until 11

    Hotel guests

  7. Sunday, 6:00 PM

    Thank you, and your photos

    Everyone

Then it’s yours

One quick question. Then every word is yours.

If your site disagrees with itself, we ask, and you answer with a tap. Then rewrite any text, remove one, or ask for changes in plain words. Nothing sends until you approve it.

A couple laughing on their living-room floor, planning their wedding on a laptop.

'26 08 21

I read 9 pages of your site. One quick question.

Your schedule says the shuttle leaves at 3:45, but the travel page says 4:00. Which is right?

Sat 3

3:15 PM

Shuttle at 3:45

Quick heads-up: the shuttle leaves the hotel lobby at 3:45. Bring yourselves and your dancing shoes.

Ask for changes

Friday to Sunday

The weekend, text by text.

Friday · 5:30 PM

They land. You say hello.

The first text sets the tone: where to be, when to be there, and how glad you are they came.

Delivered to all 86 guests

+1 (855) 555-0148

Text Message · SMS

Saturday · 3:15 PM

The shuttle question, answered early.

Only the 42 people catching the shuttle get this one. Everyone else enjoys a quieter phone.

Delivered to 42 shuttle riders

Sam & Riley

Text Message · SMS

Saturday · 11:40 PM

You’re on the dance floor. The text goes out anyway.

Every message is written and scheduled ahead, so nobody hands their phone to the maid of honor.

Delivered to all 86 guests

Sam & Riley

Text Message · SMS

Sunday · 11:00 AM

One very happy morning after.

A thank-you, and every photo your guests took, gathered in one place before brunch is over.

Delivered to all 86 guests

Sam & Riley

Text Message · SMS

5:30
+1 (855) 555-0148

Text Message · SMS

For your guests

Kind to everyone’s phone.

One number to save
Every text comes from the same number, with a contact card so guests know it’s you.
Only what matters
Around five texts a weekend, each one something a guest would otherwise have asked.
Your words, approved
Nothing sends until you’ve read it, and you can change any message right up to the minute.
Easy to step away
Any guest can reply STOP and they won’t hear from us again.

A few good questions.

What should we text our wedding guests?

Usually about five texts: a hello with the essentials, the useful details a day or two before, a nudge before anything with a departure time, and a thank-you that gathers everyone’s photos. A full weekend may need seven.

Which wedding websites can Textual read?

Any public wedding website, from Zola, The Knot and Joy to Wix or one you built yourself. No website? Start with your names, date and city.

How long does it take?

About a minute to read your site, then a question or two. If you’d rather not wait, we’ll text you when your plan is ready.

What does it cost?

Setting up your plan is free. When you’re ready for the texts to go out, it’s $299 once for your whole wedding, photo album included.

Your weekend starts here.

Bring your website and your guest list. We’ll help with everything in between.